Who are you?
A loaded question. I have come to understand the answer to this question is something along the lines of “always evolving”. Who we are is not a destination but a journey. Always changing. Always growing. Always learning. As of today, this is what I can tell you:
- INFP
- Type 2
- Right brained
- Animal lover
- Psychology enthusiast
- Analytical
- God fearing
- Compassionate
- Country (They don’t make country music like they used to)
- I love to dance
- I could talk for hours about your deepest fears, insecurities, loves and aspirations
- I like to help people
- Family oriented
- Can’t wait to have children (Harper and Bear)
- Regional Property Manager for over 10 years
- I love the city but I’m small town at heart
- I would adore being a stay at home Mother, but I equally as much enjoy my career
- Music Music Music
- Golden Retrievers (Tilly Jo and Char Pup)
- Horror movies
- Stockard Channing
- Practical Magic
- New Orleans
- Florida
- A heart bigger than my chest can hold
- Bipolar
- Adventurer
- Traveler
- Writer
- Bruncher
- Sunset admirer
- I take the time to admire the little things. Like the reflection of the street lights on the ground after a hard rain
- Falling asleep to the sound of a storm
- Submissive. Which is power.
- Nashville
- Homebody
- Party animal. I assume some kind of rabid raccoon.
- Hard worker
- Ambitious
- Procrastinator
- Concert enthusiast
- I’m a sucker for a woman in cowboy boots
- Oh, lesbian
- Candle addicted
- Cryer
- Overly sensitive
- I’m picky about pillows
- I think kennels are mean
- I love fresh flowers
- Baby giggles make ME giggle
- I talk to and for my dogs and cats
- I’m a mix of rustic and bohemian
- I love to go for long drives through the backwoods
- I always have a wreath on my door
- Halloween OBSESSED
- Fall is my favorite season
- I want to get married in October
- I am hard to explain. I am a big hearted woman who admires all of God’s creations. From animals to horizons. I love deep conversation and love that I am not just surface level. I am an anomaly.
I am sure this list will become longer. I long to learn. To continue to grow. I, like us all, have areas in which I can improve. Right now I am focusing on my attachment style. Seeking to be capable of a healthy secure attachment. I’ll get there.
What Do You Want?
I could make a long list of things I want out of someone.. but the answer is simply: You.
Now, what do I want out of life? Oh my. I want the world. I want babies and a big family. I want to live within driving distance of either my or my wife’s family. I want to see the world. I want a woman who will lead our family and protect me always. I want a support system. I want to do friend/family dinners. (I love to cook for everyone). I want to attend church and hold the hand of my partner while we pray. I want to be healthy. I want the great outdoors. I want land and open space. I want to love and be loved. I want to adore and be adored. I want to giggle at my dogs squirming on the couch. I want to laugh at my Aunt’s hilarious jokes. I want to spend all day on the beach then complain about my sunburn. I want to sing along to 90’s country music in the car with my wife with the windows down and my tiny feet on the dash. I want to become a better baker. I want the world.
What Are You Ready For?
Sigh. Life.
With Kindness,
J
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